Have you ever felt like someone could see straight through you—like they somehow knew what you were thinking?What if I told you that I could read your mind right now, through this screen?I know, sounds like a bold claim. But stay with me, because what you’re about to learn will not only fascinate you—it’ll also give you a powerful tool to take control of your thoughts and the way you experience life.For years, I worked as a magician and mentalist, performing on TV, cruise ships, and even as part of The Illusionists, one of the world’s biggest magic shows. Mentalism is all about psychological illusions—clever tricks designed to make you believe I can read your thoughts.But along the way, I discovered something even more interesting than magic: how easily our minds can be influenced without us even realising it.And right now, your brain is playing tricks on you.<h1 id="6e717a77-a25d-4f5e-b837-ae12d02b176f" data-toc-id="6e717a77-a25d-4f5e-b837-ae12d02b176f">How Mentalism Reveals the Hidden Tricks of the Mind</h1>In magic, people believe they’re making completely free choices. But the truth? They’re not.And here’s the scary part—this doesn’t just happen in magic tricks. It happens in your everyday life.We accept thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions without really questioning where they came from. We tell ourselves stories about who we are, what we’re capable of, and what’s possible for us. And most of the time? Those stories are completely made up.But don’t worry. Once you understand how this works, you can start rewriting those stories—and it all begins with one simple psychological trick.<div data-youtube-video=""><iframe width="640" height="480" allowfullscreen="true" autoplay="false" disablekbcontrols="false" enableiframeapi="false" endtime="0" ivloadpolicy="0" loop="false" modestbranding="false" origin="" playlist="" progressbarcolor="white" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/CvdaQTKXAAw?si=XKNkN4IiXZdFCnso" start="0"></iframe></div><h1 id="62f873fe-e0ff-45d9-9a8d-cc39b5d1d9a9" data-toc-id="62f873fe-e0ff-45d9-9a8d-cc39b5d1d9a9">The Forer Effect: Why You Think I Can Read Your Mind</h1>Let’s try a little experiment.Read the following statement carefully and ask yourself if it sounds like you:You have a strange relationship with success. On the outside, people see you as confident and driven, maybe even unstoppable. But what they don’t see is the battle inside your head—the late nights where you question whether you really have it figured out, or if you’re just faking it better than most.You push yourself harder than most people. Not because someone is forcing you to, but because you expect more of yourself. And even when you achieve your goals, you can’t help but wonder… was that really enough?Sound familiar?If you’re thinking, How the hell does Anthony know this about me?, you’re not alone.But I don’t actually know you.What you’ve just experienced is something called the Forer Effect—a powerful psychological trick that makes vague statements feel deeply personal.In 1948, psychologist Bertram Forer gave his students what they thought were unique personality readings. But in reality, every single student received the exact same description. And yet, almost all of them rated it as highly accurate.Why? Because our brains are wired to find meaning. We take general statements, fill in the blanks, and make them feel personal.This is the same trick used by: ✅ Horoscopes ✅ Fortune tellers ✅ Personality tests ✅ And of course… mentalists like meBut here’s the thing—this isn’t just some fun psychological quirk. It’s a trick your own mind plays on you every single day.<h2 id="02d06105-073d-4754-a273-bebe542f9f9e" data-toc-id="02d06105-073d-4754-a273-bebe542f9f9e">Your Brain is Constantly Filling in the Blanks—But Are You Filling Them with the Right Things?</h2>The Forer Effect doesn’t just happen when you read a horoscope or take a personality test.It happens in your self-talk.For example, if you tell yourself: I’ll never be good at public speaking, your brain will automatically search for proof:❌ That time you stumbled over your words in a meeting. ❌ The moment you forgot your train of thought during a presentation. ❌ The awkward silence that felt like it lasted a lifetime.Your brain is filling in the blanks to confirm what you already believe.But what if you flipped the script?What if, instead of saying I’m bad at public speaking, you asked yourself:👉 I wonder what would happen if I started trusting myself more?By shifting the way you phrase your thoughts, you start looking for evidence of your strengths, rather than your weaknesses.This is what high performers do instinctively. They don’t dwell on self-doubt. They train their minds to focus on what’s possible.And you can do the same.<h1 id="b3b34fee-cb36-4750-9e73-13a78ad9b4bb" data-toc-id="b3b34fee-cb36-4750-9e73-13a78ad9b4bb">How to Rewire Your Thinking in 3 Simple Steps</h1>If you want to stop letting self-doubt hold you back, here’s how to take back control:<h3 id="468cc432-3b1e-43b4-b1e6-4c2b5c223ee0" data-toc-id="468cc432-3b1e-43b4-b1e6-4c2b5c223ee0">1. Identify Your Limiting Beliefs</h3>What’s the first thought that pops into your head when you face a challenge?If it’s something like, I’m not confident enough, I’m not smart enough, or I’ll probably fail, that’s a limiting belief—a story your mind has created based on past experiences.Catch these thoughts before they take over.<h3 id="7a69b380-60b6-4975-beea-a7b384839c8c" data-toc-id="7a69b380-60b6-4975-beea-a7b384839c8c">2. Use "Process Suggestions" to Shift Your Mindset</h3>In mentalism, we use process suggestions—vague statements that direct your mind toward a different perspective.For example, instead of saying: ❌ I’ll never be confident.Try: ✅ I wonder what strengths I have that I haven’t fully embraced yet?This small shift forces your brain to search for evidence of your potential instead of your limitations.<h3 id="3cc5d2c7-9559-4f18-9efc-bcf51d48005d" data-toc-id="3cc5d2c7-9559-4f18-9efc-bcf51d48005d">3. Engineer Your Thoughts for Success</h3>Most people let their thoughts run on autopilot, shaped by fear, doubt, and past failures.But high achievers? They design their thinking to push themselves forward.Start paying attention to the thoughts you automatically accept as true. Ask yourself:👉 Is this belief actually helping me? Or is it holding me back?You’re already filling in the blanks—so why not make sure you’re filling them with something that moves you forward?<h1 id="50b7ad53-bade-4980-b79b-3bb6342fcf51" data-toc-id="50b7ad53-bade-4980-b79b-3bb6342fcf51">Want to Show Up With More Confidence?</h1>If you’ve ever struggled to start conversations or feel confident in social situations, I’ve got something for you.Download my FREE Break The Ice training and unlock the 3-step formula that will help you start conversations effortlessly in any setting.Whether it’s business, networking events, or social situations, this simple yet powerful strategy will change the way you communicate forever.🔗 Click here to get instant access:<a target="_blank" href="https://bit.ly/4dTZZaz"> https://bit.ly/4dTZZaz</a><h1 id="46dc2b76-9e20-4cb3-a586-97b838c70748" data-toc-id="46dc2b76-9e20-4cb3-a586-97b838c70748">Let’s Connect</h1>If you found this article helpful, follow me for more insights:📲 Instagram:<a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/anthonylayespeaks/"> @anthonylayespeaks </a>🎥 YouTube:<a target="_blank" href="https://www.youtube.com/@anthonylaye"> @anthonylaye </a>🌍 Website:<a target="_blank" href="https://www.anthonylaye.com"> </a><a target="_blank" href="http://anthonylaye.com">anthonylaye.com</a>Looking for a speaker for your next event? Or want to take your life to the next level through my mastermind programme?📩 Get in touch today.<h1 id="4b53846b-b435-4e06-a183-423491218b4d" data-toc-id="4b53846b-b435-4e06-a183-423491218b4d">Final Thoughts</h1>Your mind is either your greatest asset or your biggest obstacle. The difference? How you train it.Start questioning the thoughts that shape your reality. You’re already filling in the blanks—so why not make sure they push you forward?

By shifting the way you phrase your thoughts, you start looking for evidence of your strengths, rather than your weaknesses.

I Can Read Your Personality Through the Screen (Psychology Experiment!)

How Mentalism Reveals the Hidden Tricks of the Mind

The Forer Effect: Why You Think I Can Read Your Mind

Your Brain is Constantly Filling in the Blanks—But Are You Filling Them with the Right Things?

How to Rewire Your Thinking in 3 Simple Steps

2. Use "Process Suggestions" to Shift Your Mindset

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I Can Read Your Personality Through the Screen (Psychology Experiment!)

I Can Read Your Personality Through the Screen (Psychology Experiment!)

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